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Encouraging your preschooler to eat healthy

by Maxine
Posted December 20 2010 11:46am
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How can you get your preschooler to enjoy healthy foods? Here are some suggestions from our experts:

Establish a routine for meals and snacks. Try to feed your child at times when he is alert, and not too tired to eat or cooperate.

Use a variety of foods from the four food groups. Remember that children, like adults, have their own likes and dislikes, which may change over time. If your child will not eat certain foods (such as yellow vegetables) try to "hide them" in a soup or casserole.

Involve your child in the food preparation. For example, he can help to set the table, or pour and mix ingredients - your child will feel so proud of his participation, that he will be more likely to eat what he has helped to prepare.

Serve new foods alongside familiar foods. This encourages your child to enjoy eating a variety of foods and establish good manners.

Create a pleasant environment for your child at mealtime. Make sure she is comfortable (for example, young children will usually need a booster seat).

Set reasonable expectations, such as a realistic sense of how long your child can sit at one time, or the amount of food that he can eat during a meal or snack time. 

Try not to show anxiety about what foods your child is or is not eating. Children learn quickly that food can be used as a weapon for getting their way.

Don't forget that children's appetites vary. Children should eat to satisfy their hunger, not to gain anyone's approval.

Try to sit and eat as a family. This establishes mealtimes as pleasant social occasions.

Offer your child the same food that everyone else at the table is eating, as long as it is age-appropriate.

Present food in a form your child can cope with at her level of skill and independence. Using child-sized, unbreakable utensils, dishes and cups will help encourage your child to develop the skills she needs to learn to feed herself.

Understand that children need practice. Using a spoon, fork and cup with control and confidence takes years of practice.

Remember that children tend to be messy. They may eat with their fingers and hands, spill things and can be easily distracted.

Limit the number of choices at a meal as too many choices can be overwhelming. Foods that are rejected by your child should be re-introduced at a later time.

Involve your child in making decisions about meals so his likes are reflected in the menu. Try to always include one thing your child likes eating.

Buy or make a placemat for your child's place at the table. 

How do you encourage your preschooler to eat healthy? What have you found works best for your family? Share your experience with other parents by leaving a comment below!

 

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How do preschoolers learn to share?

by Maxine
Posted December 22 2010 05:33pm
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Trying to get your preschooler to share? Sometimes it seems impossible and sometimes they surprise you with their generosity!

Knowing how to share is an important skill for getting along with others, but parents shouldn't expect a child to really understand "sharing" until age four.

It's not surprising that it takes time to be able to share. There is a lot to learn. Children have to be able to control their impulse to grab something. They have to be able to see another child's point of view, understand time well enough to feel that it's okay to wait for what they want and be able to talk enough to sort out who gets what, and when.

Preschoolers are at the next stage. They spend a fair amount of their playtime working out who will have what, who will do what and who can play. This is normal - it's how they practice the social skills needed for friendships. At this stage, children are better able to exchange both ideas and toys. They like to give and take

If by age four your child still doesn't cooperate with others, and is hostile, it's best to get some help. Consult your child's physician for referrals to appropriate family services in your area.

 

How do you encourage your preschooler to share? Leave a comment below and let us know!

 

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Educational computer games and young children

by Maxine
Posted August 8 2011 02:17pm
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Research shows that educational computer games can help your child learn certain skills, like recognizing the letters of the alphabet or learning to read aloud. But finding high-quality educational software can be tricky.

New games are coming out all the time and there are no universal standards to ensure quality. Many of these games can help encourage your child's reading or language development. But not all of them will provide your child with the educational benefits they claim.

A good place to start when you're looking for appropriate games is a store that sells high-quality educational supplies. To find a store near you, ask a local teacher. Librarians, especially school librarians, can also help guide you in the right direction. They may even be able to provide you with a list of recommended titles.

Here are some tips to help you and your child make the most of educational computer games:

  • Many software packages allow you to set the game's level of difficulty. You can get a sense of what level your child is ready for if you play the game together the first few times.
  • Encourage your child to work through the game at his own pace.
  • Be there to help your child with some of the game's more challenging features and give her encouragement when needed.
  • Be available to help your child navigate through the game and answer any questions he may have.

Remember, it's important to be aware of what your child is doing on the computer. It's also a good idea to set time limits on game-playing (10 to 30 minutes at a time) so your child gets the chance to enjoy a variety of other fun and educational activities as well.

 

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Giving vs Getting: Help your child find balance during the holidays tip sheet

by Maxine
Posted December 11 2011 11:19pm
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The centre of many holiday celebrations is giving and receiving gifts, especially for children. Children fantasize about it, and most hope to receive lots of big, expensive gifts. You may worry that the mid-winter holidays will spoil your children or make them greedy.

Download this Comfort, Play & Teach Tip Sheet (PDF) for strategies from our experts on how you can help your child find balance this holiday season

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